Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Deaths Bells

A little comment before this next peice: after reading this to someone they said "you don't write about deaths bells! you write about puppy dogs, rainbows and fluffy clouds" To which I say " I did write about deaths bells and I liked it ;)

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Shall I say you are dead to me
for I shan't fall at your feet once more

The bells!
The bells!

They do ring for me
Death, you are dead
banging on my door

Heavy carved wood that hurts to pound
but there you are
you are dead
to me
for I shan't fall at your feet anymore

Stand up and answer
Deaths bells!
Ringing loud for me
they call me out
with chants and shouts

Deep and resonating
the knightwatchman stands still
waxes and wanes serene

He comes for me
sweet release
final answer
to deaths bells
to grab my soul

Finally
in lock down

Drag me unwillingly
or let me fall down
deaths deep ringing bells
pull me down

Breath the earth
clutch dust and dirt
embrace enveloping darkness
as shadows and shifts
they leave my face

Pull hair in agony
feel and see my pain

Deaths bells
do wax and wane

written 8/26/12

Whose Child Is This

Whose child is this
the one standing here
he's not mine
I'm certain
it's clear

whose child is this
the one with breath
the one standing here
all be it his best

He's not mine
I'm certainly clear
stand up
sit down
clown round

over here

he's not mine
I'm certain
vaguely clear

who's this kid
standing here

He's ragged
He's muffled
he's ruffled at best

He's not mine
I'm sure
to jest

who is it
He's not mine
the one right here

He's still in me
I'm bulging
its clear

He can't be mine
I'm not ready yet
theatrical
comedical
screaming

That's where I'm at

who is he
are you sure

he's not mine
I beg to differ

summer was over
and still I shout
 whose child is this
with little clout

Shame!

Shame to thee

Shout explanations
sing to me
It's over
it's summer yet
whose child is this
clamored and yet

He can't be mine
of this I'm sure
I beg to differ
for he's in me yet

written 8/20/2012

Miss Abby, she dashes

Why am I here
they shun me so
with fallen looks and pigeon toes
to seek and see
what shan't be there
Miss Abby
she dashes
fragile spirit
leaden tongue
quick witted
and sure to none
written purpose
cold and bare
why am I
why am I here

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Death and Destruction

There is no beauty here within
only death, destruction and necrotic skin
blackened night leads to red sky days

scatter scant people
run away

chant the song to live long and well
raise the fire and hear them yell

there is no glory here within
this hearts filled with bloody sin
created by one after another
of murderous wins

written Jan 17, 2012

Friday, June 29, 2012

The Ugly Truth as Written by Ramblin' Rose

The Ugly Truth later renamed so Hollywood wouldn't sue me for copywright infringement. Yahoo Voices has always published everything I have submitted until this one. I think I will adopt my usual attitude and say blep blep em and continue on to write a book.



Begun writing June 26, 2012 6:28pm


The ugliness started at an early age. So early, I can not even remember when. Ugly words thrown about more often than people or fists and even inanimate angry things. My mere survival happened within myself, within papers, collectable rocks, make believe happenings and worlds. Most did not know the oddly imbalanced life we led where mother was a deaconess whose favorite song was “Amazing Grace” and father was a cussing race car driver. I often wonder hwo two such people that crossed paths decided it was a good idea to attempt a happy life together.


I don’t remember my mother or father saying “I love you”. My mother must have, I am sure at some point. I want to throw in a disclaimer and say she did but it is not one of those things that is stuck in my memory. I will acknowledge she said it with birthday cakes she would hide in the kitchen cupboard and with the yardstick she would break across your back. She said it with Ivory soap that would wash my mouth out and stated it again by bringing home government cheese all the while not letting on where it came from. She said it even louder still by surviving ugly dad which I did not discover until much later.


Ugly Dad. Brought up an ugly lad, grew into a delusional ugly old man. He was not physically ugly for he was actually handsome despite his hair that turned not just gray but white before he enrolled in the Navy. He believes so strongly that God speaks to him that he writes endlessly about it, politics, his version of religion and anything else that gets stuck in his head. This from a man who threw my mother down the stairs and smashed both of his kids bikes because we wouldn’t come visit him. I believe it is not God speaking to him but rather his own memories catching up on him that have soiled his mind with such guilt that he can not function in any other way but the way that he does. Delusion. I hope its not catching.

Disclaimer for ugly dad. In all fairness, he is a genius in some aspects. He built his own house on the side of a mountain and built a generator out of a car motor to run his power. He plumbed his house in the most simplest fashion and did not sacrifice shower, sink or toilet unless you don't call a bucket with a lid a toilet. He could name every make, model and year of a car that would fly by us on the highway at lightening speed and he could draw them exceptionally well. He could invent gadgets, drive cars on two wheels and fix nearly anything except for one thing-the most important, himself.



Mother. I fail to say ugly but tainted and troubled, yes. When I was younger I did all I could to please her and always fell short. She was a red headed freckled sometimes christian and sometimes troubled young woman and I understand her woes fully. She lived in a small community after divorcing the ugly dad and lived with constant fear, harassment and irritation. I often wonder if she ever had enough happiness in her life. She died single, with a boyfriend who married someone just months, maybe six months after her leaving us permanently.


Tainted Mother and Ugly father raised two children to their teens almost always together but never really together. Constant fighting it seemed to me. I sometimes search my own memories for something better and I do remember happy times as well. But the fighting... I remember it too vividly.




The fighting escalated more than once to the point that my brother joined in either out of self defense for himself or for mother. Many troubled years later after defending her honor, he took a swung at her himself to which another came back at him. We both left the home this night briefly. This was not the first time we had been asked to leave. So sibling asked to leave because he took a swing at a tainted mother who screamed while drunk and hated the very sight of her children or did she? Daughter who was asked to leave because she screamed at both of them to stop.



Out of such chaos what do you get? One tainted mother who left the earth before the age of thirty seven and one still living ugly father who I wish would vaporize off the earth along with all the other scourge.
One daughter who comes out of it resembling a wild rose. Slightly pungent, a little sweet and thorny who defiantly thrives just enough to see another sunny day. One son who fought for his life and continues to thrive like the rambling rose. We had these, rambling, wild roses that trailed the barbed wire fences and peeked out from behind beat up cars that were left in our driveway to play in.



Rambling rose daughter works each day for what seems a decent wage but for a family of three is below poverty level and just barely above that same level when you add in child support. She lives somewhat frugally and sometimes spends too much. Her family shop thrift stores as they have all of their life and would continue to do so even if more money were to come. At times rambling rose wants to give up and has known at least two people that claims she has saved from uncertain death because she was there for them. Wild pungent rose does not let on that she has had the same thoughts for life has not been easy and she is growing weary of being strong. She just keeps doing what she is able. Rose works. She works for a decent wage and hopes that the tainted and twisted delusional minds that raised her are far from what I she has become so far.



I, the rambling rose daughter has come to the realization and must admit openly that faith in love has been lost and furthermore, at the same time the belief or notion that she ( I ) might find someone that would love her that she could love too seems lost. Loosing love or someone she loved over and over just cemented this sad notion in her head and heart.



I often cry when I write and am reminded that yes, it is a window into my soul. I take little bits of life, memories and what I feel from other people even to write what sometimes makes others cry. I am emphatic and often it hurts me to be around or with people who are hurting. At times, I am better at this than others but often have to exit to save myself. Sometimes, it is I that hurts too much and must exit for fear of falling apart. I wish to be stronger for myself and my own rambling family. I wish to prove to ugly dad that what comes out of chaos can be beautiful. I fear I have fell short once again but don't tell tainted mother for I still have a bit of time. We shall not call it the end until it is truly the end. I am preparing myself.


I have had two cancer scares. Yes, two. It leaves you feeling defeated, cheated and dirty even though you have seemed to gotten a free pass once more. I have lost one child before birth and the feeling of utter despair and wanting to disappear as the life that did not quite come to be leaves you is nearly indescribable. It is a pain so fierce emotionally and physically that it drains you of all desire to move let alone function along with your peers.



I have loved someone and walked away because I knew it was best. I have loved someone and still not forgotten about them even though I know I need to. I possibly sabotage blossoming relationships because I lost faith in love and someones ability to love me and due to my own fear that love just doesn’t exist for me so there is no point. I have loved someone and been moved to words so fluently that I can’t stop them. I have also been moved to the point that what I write I will not share with you because how dare you know whats in my head let alone my shriveling heart.



I hesitate to elaborate on this last subject for I go to extreme measures to not write about love, lost love, someone I love or have loved. I instead write about cranes, death, loss, jetsons, the feeling of the rush of wind in your ear, the gathering of objects and still, about love. For lastly, always, life is about love. Love of one self, love of another, love of what incredible opportunities present themselves everyday and love of simple objects or nature and yes, even created things.


Love must survive a multitude of wrong doings, missed events and misspoken words. Love is fragile yet forever forgiving and ultimately the driving passion that gives us the strength to endure the ugly dads, the tainted moms, the meager paychecks and the screaming kids. Patience of course, helps tremendously. When love is still there but the object of your love has exited, does love really still exist? Yes, I have discovered that it does. Call it what you may. It sits on the back burner, it sprouts and thrives in other places and people.




On to a few closing thoughts. My life so far. Let me sum it up, two years single. A man in her life that befuddles her, seems to love her, hurts her at times without knowing he has and so they go on. Murky and sometimes wonderful for that is how life is. They continue on.


A job. A meager paycheck and demanding tasks that fry her brain. She longs for something more fulfilling, creative and justifying. But she continues on because she must. She is after all, the only one in the household who earns any paycheck.


Two kids. Both special in their own right, one wildly at times hyper four year old and one introverted twenty year old. Paint my rainbow then wash it out is all I am going to say on that subject.


Two bedroom, two bath apartment. Again meager for it is all she can afford. She makes it comfortable, even cozy despite the hot wheels and blankets that get strung across the front room. It will do for now. She grows vegetables and flowers on the deck and misses the gardens she used to have and built from scratch. She does not miss them enough to want her old life back.


So, in final closing~


This wooly mammoth is looking for its last unicorn. Sad, lonely and oddly beautiful mammoth wandering the plains and finding nothing but scraps for life is nearly at its end and time has decided to laugh and mock her. Still, she tries. Often, she cries. So much so that she wakes with swollen eyes and is thankful that no one is around to see. Sometimes she cries because she misses the tainted mother who never was able to see her grow into her own.





She, the daughter, the rambling rose an award winning poet who makes no money at a trade that she wishes she could call her day job. A woman who when she feels broken and down drinks one more drink and dances and pounds her feet defiantly into the ground. When her hair flies as she dances, she laughs instead of shedding tears that threaten to fall. They can all hear her laugh and fail to see the tears that sit just at the corners of eyes that look much younger than her forty four years. They believe her eyes are red from the drink but she is actually on the brink. The brink of despair and the things that save her are also the very ones that drive her there.


Who is she? This rambling rose who lays no claim to be anyone’s daughter...


She is struggling mother
defiant dancer
troubled soul seeker
adamantly helping friends
when she ought to help herself


She is busy bee worker
struggling to keep up
drinking burnt coffee
out of a Starbucks ceramic cup


She is sometimes lover
and dreamer
and hand holder
with a broken heart
that she appears to mend


Yet it falls apart
over and over again



Written by Tera L. Vermillion
finished around 930 pm including a dinner break

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Foolery

At times I do not write for I can not sort out what I wish to say. When I can not do this, I make jewelry, do chores, walk, kick sand, have a couple cocktails. Sometimes writing helps me to sort things out so, I am hoping that tonight this is the case.

I feel as if ...
I have no more feeling.
I have no point to the feelings.
I have no direction or motivation.

Just stumbling in the dark. This week, I have killed eight ants, one entire blog, one website, one dating profile which was up for one day, my hopes and dreams, my desire for something more. I've probably killed someones faith in me and what I believe in, I don't know anymore.

I can't take back killing the ants. I could undo killing the blog if I did it today but I do not wish to. I don't care about the dating site or anyone on it. I don't care to work on the website.

I don't know how to get back my motivation or my desire at the moment but I am sure it will come to me. I am going thru my own greiving of sorts and I can't even say why. Life is a drag and then you die.

I didn't want to spend my last decades alone, as in without a significant other but it seems in this case I am doomed. I know, I know. Whatever. But really, after two years of being single and having the occasional boyfriend I feel as if I have come to a crossroads.

I don't want to date. I don't want a boyfriend. I want to be someone's forever and it never works out. It seems no matter which way I approach it the outcome is always the same.

Being single is not a bad thing, don't get me wrong. But this girl wasn't made to be single. My heart calls out for another and no one answers. So, as much as I write about love and all of its lovely words...

Often, I write with vivid imagination and memories for more often than not, I have no one.

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Life's Blessing


"Dismiss the struggles of your day and embrace the idea that with love in our hearts anything and everything is possible. Keep the faith that all things good are coming to you for you deserve these things and with dedication your life will be satisfying." My quote for the day, written by yours truly Jan 20th, 2012.


Love of our family, our life partner and of ourselves. Far reaching and always elusive, love is for some is forgotten and put last on our agenda when really it should be in the forefront. If everything we did we approached with love as the end result in our mind then we would have no choice but to excell in all we do.

Approach the day with joy in your heart and the most difficult of tasks will either be completed with no difficulty or if left unfinished, will not leave you feeling vexed for having not finished them. When you turn in for the night and think of all the things you have in your life and gratitude swells in your heart you fall asleep content . If you do the opposite, you feel disatisfied and frustrated. So, decide right here and now which one you would rather feel.

It is a proven and long discussed fact that happy people are more successful, less stressed and in the ned this very status of their being contributes to their ongoing success. Dwell long in the pool of peace, happiness and strength for in this state you attract the same. I sincerely wish for you to walk out into this day with a smile not only on your face but in your heart for you will encounter many individuals that will be blessed by your presence and will carry the same air of tranquility with them into their day.

Be strong. This is vital for some will be confused your ongoing happiness despite the fighting factors in your life. Disregard the naysayers, the non believers and the ones who question your new found spirit. When you meet them I want you to repeat after me:

To love foolishly
with all might
and perseverance
without fear and
most of all without strife
To be blessed
with joy
all of your days
This I wish for you.

My mantra, written August 13, 2002. Keep the words in your mind, in your heart and on the tip of your tongue to share.

Monday, January 9, 2012

Somewhere Between Love and Murder



At any given time is there something you can identify that is somewhere between love and murder? Notice I did not say between love and hate.

I was at the local library this weekend and after paying my fines for not returning my toddlers books on time I decided to wander over and pick out a couple of books for myself. I ended up with a book on mythology, an inspirational book and a love story of sorts. What I took notice of was that just opposite the sordid love stories were the gruesome murder mysteries.

I think there is a fine line between crazed obsession and love, in fact I am sure of it. I have experienced sweetness at the hand of another, on the opposite I have experienced bitter, piercing words that are left to sting like salt on an open wound.

Let me moon walk...backwards....star like. There is no other way, when life throws you dung, you make a garden with it. Preferably a rambling victorian garden that appears unkept but holds great beauty and places to hide away.

Nearly or about two years ago, I did what I thought was fall in love. Mutually in love. Only to have every particle of my being blown into the atmosphere at a very high rate of speed. I questioned my very existence, my place in this world, my worth and it took every ounce of my being to make it back alive.

Back to me.

About half a year later, a long time friend kissed me while sitting at a picnic table after eating a cheeseburger. Wow...hit me in the head. I can not even begin to explain this chapter in my life. Friend, occasional dance partner, holder of random bits of useful trivia and challenger in conversation without being confrontational. He helped me get back to being me. I have told him he will always be loved and this is true.

Roughly a year after that, I did it again. Smack down, blubbering, stars in my eyes...fell in love. The first time I stood near him I swear the world stopped. Kidding. Kinda. Every step I took, every breath that escaped...I was going to say was all for him. But here I was in love but not crazed. Not yet, anyway.

I don't know if I would still be holding his hand if it weren't for just a couple of things. I did say to a woman that I would go to the ground for him.....that's another story for another time. I am not confrontational but I don't share nicely and I ummm..let's talk about that some other time.

Love may not find me again. It may never be the mutual swirl that you feel when the other one smiles and lights up your life. I am not scared to be alone. I am scared that I missed my chance. I think back on my life and wonder was there ever anyone who really loved me with a passion so undeniable that they couldn't contain it? Was it so strong that I could feel its presence before me?

Claiming to love someone while putting them thru hell that makes them think of murder...nah. I don't have enough hate in my heart for anyone to think of that. But throw a ring back, block a number, block emails, I can do that. Love is not compiled of texting xoxoxoxo's, love is respect, honesty, friendship, chemistry, communication and not just emails that can be carefully thought out but real communication.

Love's most important detail~love yourself first and foremost without reservation or worry about what or who ... listen to your heart and follow thru with its direction. If this means being alone until the tides have stopped, then so be it.

So, I sit here and cry tears that don't quite fall to my cheeks. I cry sometimes when I write not because I am sad really but because inbetween all of my paraphrasing, extra dot...dot...dots... are untold stories that I may never share. I search for the one who searches for me but not today. Not yesterday and not tomorrow. For now, I write and create and work because anything else has proven too exhausting.